why are you misrable?
Why are you miserable?
You may have wondered and asked yourself so many times, or maybe you asked yourself why someone else is miserable. It feels like they are done. Everything is bad in their life even The good things are getting bad like it can’t get any worst, but of course, it always will so have you ever wonder why there is misery?
Finish reading this article to the end and I will tell you exactly why you or anyone else is miserable and why it’s getting worst and how can you change it today, yes today not next week not next month but today and forever.
There is an old well know story told by name wise men I will re-mention it here so please read it carefully
“One Sufi mystic who had remained happy his whole life — no one had ever seen him unhappy — who was always laughing, who was laughter, whose whole being was a perfume of celebration…. In his old age, when he was dying, on his deathbed and still enjoying death, laughing hilariously, a disciple asked, “You puzzle us. Now you are dying, why are you laughing? What is there funny about it? We are feeling so sad. We wanted to ask you many times in your life why you are never sad. But now, confronting death at least, one should be sad. You are still laughing — how are you managing it?”
The old man said, “It is simple. I had asked my master — I had gone to my master as a young man; I was only seventeen and already miserable, and my master was old seventy, and he was sitting under a tree, laughing for no reason at all. There was nobody else there, nothing had happened, nobody had cracked a joke or anything, and he was simply laughing, holding his belly. I asked him, ‘What is the matter with you? Are you mad or something?’
“He said, ‘One day I was also as sad as you are. Then it dawned on me that it is my choice, it is my life.’
“Since that day, every morning when I get up, the first thing I decide is… before I open my eyes I say to myself, ‘Abdullah’” — that was his name — “‘what do you want? Misery? Blissfulness? What you are going to choose today?’ And it happens that I always choose blissfulness.”
It is a choice. Try it. When you become aware the first moment in the morning that sleep has left, ask yourself, “Abdullah, another day! What is your idea? Do you choose misery or blissfulness?”
And who would choose misery? And WHY? It is so unnatural — unless one feels blissful in misery, but then too you are choosing bliss, not misery.”
Ok so now you know it’ completely your choice and if you don’t agree that it’s your choice then you are still in denial and you still want to be miserable, no if you agree that it’s fully and completely your choice and that you can fully control it but simply don’t know how or don’t have the power to do it then I will help you, follow those step and I promise you your life will change in less than 24 hours and trust me it may sound like a bunch of nonsense but what do you have to lose I mean you are already miserable how much worst it can get?
1- forgive yourself – sit with yourself or inner mind ALONE IN A COMFORTABLE PLACE and say today my friend and spiritual guide Rouh have told me that I HAVE BEEN BLAMING MY SELF FOR MANY THINGS AND I NEED TO FULLY FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ANY BAD, STUPID, WEAK, OR UGLY ACTION OR DECISION I HAVE DONE OR CHOSEN IN MY LIFE, SO I FULLY FORGIVE ME FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE DONE
2- forgive everyone else- after you forgive yourself say NOW I HAVE FORGIVEN MYSELF I WANT TO EXTEND THIS POWER AND BLISS AND FORGIVE EVERYONE ELSE, ALL WHOM HAVE HURT ME IN LIFE, ALL WHOM HAVE DONE WRONG TO ME AND ALL WHOM I HELD A GRUDGE, HATE OR REVENGE AGAINST THEM I FORGIVE THEM ALL FOR EVERYTHING THEY HAVE DONE I FORGIVE THEM BECAUSE I’M POWERFUL AND I FORGIVE THEM BECAUSE I CAN AND I FORGIVE THEM BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO AND I FORGIVE THEM BECAUSE I’M FREE OF THEM OR ANY OF THEIR ACTIONS AND EFFECTS.
3- realize the truth- after you forgiven everyone in your life realize that WHAT EVER MEMORY OR IDEA YOU HAVE ABOUT THE PAST ANY BAD, UGLEY OR HARMFUL IDEA WAS SIMPLE A mere ILLUSION, in reality it never happened because in your mind you subject reality into 3 parts (past, present and future) but this is a fallacy it’s wrong and crazy because the past is that which doesn’t exist anymore and the future is that what have not existed yet so the only real reality existence is the now the present and how can we subject or even compare something real to something not real, how can you say time is past present and future and the past and the future are nonexistence they don’t exist but the now exist and that’s the only thing you are in which is a reality, so they have been lying to you the whole time when they told you in the past or in the future there is no past and no future there is only now the past is simply your memories and the way they have been organized in your head to another person who have seen or experience the past the same past you had they may have a completely different vision of the reality and of what happened so what you think is your past, is not real, subjectively talking all the things that you think are not nice or good In you past are only in your head, you are hear now right now a fully new person who have made a conscious decision to not being miserable anymore so why you believe something not real imagine If I took all you memories from your head and asked you who you are ? what would you say I don’t know I’M ME MY SELF that is exactly who you are a mystery you don’t have a past never did nor a future because you are real you are in the now and the now is the only real thing.
4- realize the power- you are what you think you are, everyone is what they think they are. really you never thought about that this way let me explain, on a very simple physical level, what makes a policeman a policeman? The uniform and the badge, the gun if I gave you a uniform and I bag and put you in a street will the people passing by started slowing down and acting all nice and cool because they think you are a policeman or not? yes you bet they will. They don’t know you and they don’t know anything about you but because they see your uniform and badge they see a policeman. Another example what is the value of money? It’s simply dirty green paper but because people agreed in one place that this dirty piece of paper has a value it became a medium for exchange of goods and services imagine bringing some weird currency form someplace else in the work and trying to buy anything simply food can you pay the restaurant in this weird currency? No, never even though it may worth more money than the currency or the price of this item or food but you can’t because people don’t know it yet, they haven’t believed it yet and they haven’t agreed on it yet, same thing with you if you don’t agree that you are happy, successful and lucky you will never be happy, successful or luck, and when you agree that you are happy and successful and luck based on the level of your believe and confident people will agree with you and when they do so it will be a fact that you are happy, successful and lucky, just like a dirty green piece of paper with a bold president on it people agreed that it is 100 $ or at least the products and services that a 100$ can buy, do you get the lesson you are what you think you are. Your thoughts are what makes you so think and be whatever you want to be just for heaven’s sake don’t be miserable anymore.
5- realize the beauty – you are better than 10000000 that’s a ten million semen (possibility of someone just like you) that didn’t make it and you did so scientifically and medically you are the best in ten million doesn’t that count for something?
A simple comparison between you and the richest king or emperor 1000 years ago that’s not far ago by the way. The richest most powerful king or ruler 1000 years ago didn’t even dream about the some of the luxuries you have every day if you are living in any metropolitan city this meant you can grab, on-demand Asian, Italian, American or any other kind of food, the king or the richest man a thousand years ago would eat some meat and fruits that would be the best they could get and if he wanted Asian food he would have to conquer China, Italian food, he had to conquer Rome, Indian food he had to fight the tribes in the Indian jungles with their poisonous spears and daggers (not nice I know), and you simply put your phone and get any of that food on your uber eats. this technically if you go back in time makes you greater than Alexander the great, richer than the king of Babylon, a better conquer than the Roman emperor and having better food that all those three people, seriously think about it! this is just one simple example think about all the other luxuries the health advancement, and the technology that you have now, you are a hundred time better than the best men who lived a thousand years ago, do you see how this is going everything in life and the course of this universe is choosing you, making you better, helping you, and giving you what you like you simply ignored it and decided to entertain your sorry self, and be miserable not anymore I just busted your bubble, so next time someone asks you how are you? say much better than Alexander the great and if they ask why, explain it to them. They will respect you.
6- never ever complain- yes never ever complain I will make this very simple for you if you complain then you want to be miserable you chose to be miserable and you like to be miserable, logically, complaining is a result of something you don’t like or don’t want, so there are only 2 things to do about it even you can change it and that include your effort to make someone change it for you or you can’t change it and that includes that no one can change it for you. So, if you can change it change it why would you complain? If you can’t change it and no one else can so why complain, change your mind and thought and try to enjoy it or at least ignore it and don’t talk about it, so why do you even complain. Make it a habit make it a rule and make it a standard, never ever complain, don’t even say “oh but this would been better” or “oh I wish I done that” that is complaining, don’t even write or file a complaint if you go to a shitty restaurant and the food is horrible or the service is horrible just leave don’t complain, I can’t stress this enough make it a habit and a rule that you don’t complain, make people around you realize that you don’t complain and make people relies that you don’t like it when they complain or anyone else complain like you are seriously allergic to complaining. Do you get it.
So here you are the six rules of changing your life and never be miserable again if you follow those great rules that I have written for you in a simple and funny way after years of meditation, studying and reading and after being around some of the greatest masters and teachers in the world. I could’ve sold you this, made it book and copyrighted it, made it a video and charged you for it, but I didn’t I made it fully free and completely accessible to you, so you won't have any excuse and say this guy is selling me something or this guy needs something from me, I don’t want anything from you, I want you to be happy, great and never be miserable again, so if you are happy, great and not miserable then my whole life purpose is accomplished, I don’t expect you to thanks me, I don’t expect you to pay me and I don’t even expect you to give me any credit if this worked with you and I know as a fact that it will but at least I expect you, to share this with others, simply let people know that there is a random guy somewhere who wrote something and I think you should read it because it may change your life.
Your friend and spiritual guide